How To Buy A Gift For Your Significant Other

How To Buy A Gift For Your Significant Other

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Whenever two people are in a relationship, a token of affection from iPod playlists to love letters to a spontaneous vacation trip allows them to cement a solid connection. However, such random acts of displaying affection wither away as a relationship gets older. In fact, when this happens, even finding an appropriate gift for something as simple as a birthday starts to feel like a chore.

But giving gifts to your significant other becomes even more essential as your relationship matures. We all know how special occasions such as wedding anniversaries, birthdays, or holidays are. No matter how much your spouse, girlfriend, or boyfriend says “they don’t need anything,” we all know that is not true. You could try to ask them what they want, and if you get lucky, they’ll tell you, and you can go out and get it for them. However, it will take out all the surprise and romance from the gift-giving experience. To achieve the impossible and buy the perfect gift for your significant other, here’s a helpful guide to scoring the best gift possible for your man or woman.

Combine a gift with a memorable experience 

 Some people love receiving tangible gifts on particular occasions, while some prefer sharing a memorable experience with their loved ones. So, why shouldn’t you try to do both? Pairing an experience with an object to match will double the significance and quality of a gift. It will create an unforgettable memory that will last forever. Just imagine your significant other looking at the gift and remembering the experience and memory associated with it. It will surely put smiles on both of your faces. A bonus tip is to give a gift at the exact moment the experience is taking place. For example, you can hand over a guitar lesson certificate while you’re at a concert. Or you can also give a lovely gift hamper from while celebrating your significant other’s birthday!

Make your gift choices on your partner’s interests

We know what you are thinking. Just stop right now! When buying a gift, you have to think broader. For example, if your significant other is a successful business person, what does she/he need the most? What interests her or him? Probably a time management device! Something that allows her/him to manage their professional life more efficiently.

Is your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse in nursing school? Buy them a nice and expensive nurse survival kit! Does your significant other play music? Get her or him an instrument they love to play. When you try to give gifts that correlate with your partner’s interests, they’ll surely never forget it as long as they live.

Stalk and stalk some more

If your partner is the mysterious type and you cannot find out their interests, try to stalk them. Most people have an amazon wishlist neatly tucked away in their browser’s history. They’ll jump with excitement if you can somehow find and gift them the item without them even knowing about it.

Stalk your partner’s mobile phone and social media accounts for hidden clues. If your partner regularly reddits, there is a high chance that you can see their posts and comments. Plus, you can also stalk your significant other’s Facebook and Reddit marketplace wishlist! If your significant other has a best friend, bring him or her in the fold. They might give you a fresh perspective on the things that interest them the most. Talking to people close to your partner, obviously other than you, may provide you with insight into what a suitable gift might be for your significant other.

Turn the gift-receiving experience into an event

Be creative with how you pack the gift. Instead of just simply handing it over in plain wrapping paper, turn your significant other’s gift-receiving experience into an event. You’ll want to make sure that your partner enjoys it. For example, host a scavenger hunt and ask your partner to find his or her gift by discovering clues.

If you want to give them a gift card, hide a secret message in their favorite book or novel that takes them by surprise. Or better yet, neatly sow the gift inside your significant other’s favorite childhood stuffed toy- if you’re good with surgery, of course. That said, never forget the importance of a nicely wrapped gift. Sometimes, quality can mean quantity when you are giving your partner multiple small hand-wrapped items.

Add a personal touch to the gift

It might be simple – and we know it is. Still, taking some time to add a personal element can decide whether a gift is mediocre or something your partner will never forget. For instance, the perfect path to take here is to buy your partner some fine jewelry that can either be an engraved piece or adorned with semi-precious/precious stones.

Your options are limitless when it comes to engraved jewelry. Go above and beyond the boring dates and initials and get your partner something meaningful. Whether it is an inside joke, a secret code word, or a catchphrase, it is all about making your relationship and the gift recipient genuinely unique and special.


These tips only scratch the surface when buying the best gift for your significant other. There might be thousands of things you’d need to consider when talking about your partner’s personal preferences and tastes. By following these tips, you will form a great foundation when choosing a gift that allows you to celebrate minor and significant milestones your relationship will cross in the future. In the end, don’t forget to listen to your partner, commemorate special occasions, and gift items or experiences that hold emotional value.

Christie Lewis
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